In today’s language knowledge means development of experimental consciousness. This consciousness is not available to every living creature, only to man. We are human beings and that is a strong foundation of achieving higher level of consciousness. What make us different from other living creatures from the vegetable and the animal kingdom is developing consciousness, the reasoning power, rational judgment and the capacity for experience. The development of the power of Consciousness along with that of the life force is opening up of new dimensions and directions. It’s a tremendous thing! You are a man; therefore you can develop your life. For example, the human being can have an extraordinary experience by having in a super conscious way, the „ multi-orgasm”.
Orgasm (from Greek „orgasmos “-excitement, swelling) is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual excitement during the sexual response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region. Experienced by males and females, orgasms are controlled by the involuntary or autonomic nervous system. This is the definition of a normal orgasm. But in the Taoist tradition, the conscious orgasm, the one achieved during lovemaking, practicing sexual continence, is the not a sudden discharge. On the contrary, it is an extraordinary state of fulfilling for the entire body, mind and spirit. Because of controlling the sexual energy, the human being can live a general euphoric sensation. In a higher level, he can experience the multi orgasm, being aware all the time of his entire body and his energies.
The first key to understanding how men can have multiple orgasms is to understand that orgasm and ejaculation are distinct events, which one can learn to distinguish and separate. Most men have always accepted orgasm and ejaculation as one in the same because they happen in such rapid succession, orgasm beginning slightly before (ejaculation) then tapering off during ejaculation.
The second key to navigating the path to multiple orgasms is gaining the ability to separate orgasm and ejaculation.
Any man can become “multi-orgasmic”. It only requires a basic understanding of male sexuality and certain techniques. Most men’s sexuality is focused on the goal of ejaculating, rather than on the actual process of lovemaking. Once a man becomes multi-orgasmic he will not only be able to better satisfy himself, but also more effectively satisfy his partner. Most men mistakenly believe that being able to regain their erection as soon as possible after ejaculation and reaching another climax within some arbitrary period of time qualifies as being multi-orgasmic. This is false because the true multi-orgasmic male does not lose his erection between orgasms.
Technically, multiple orgasms occur in succession, without complete loss of sexual arousal in between. Women are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms. Not many are aware that men with proper training can actually do the same. Multiple male orgasms include only orgasm and not ejaculation. And here comes the sexual continence method. In the case of women, multiple orgasm means resuming sexual stimulation shortly after a first orgasmic climax, usually immediately or within a few minutes, so that a second climax may be reached. If the woman does indeed experience further climaxes during the same sexual encounter, she is said to be multi-orgasmic.
Multiple orgasms or ejaculation?
Both begin in the same way, moving from arousal until a point near ejaculation or “point of no return”. At this point a man will experience a series of genital contractions lasting three to five seconds. These contractions are “pelvic orgasms” and at first feel like a “fluttering” or mild release of pressure. Once identified and controlled, these sensations will become progressively more intense.
When approaching “the point of no return” the goal is not to crest over into ejaculation but to decrease stimulation, just long enough to gain control over the arousal rate. Effective control can be achieved by squeezing the sexual muscles. Learning to control the sexual muscles is essential to sexual health and stamina.
Male and female sexual “response cycles” are strikingly similar. The primary difference between the two is male ejaculation. Multi-orgasmic women are able to have successive orgasms if stimulation is resumed shortly after the first orgasm because they do not ejaculate (not withstanding reports that some women are able to ejaculate, as this has never been adequately scientifically explained).
Ejaculation initiates the refractory period in males. During this time, most men are unable to achieve another erection or even receive further stimulation due to the loss of sexual tension and the penis is usually too sensitive to touch. Since women are not biologically programmed to ejaculate, they do not have this annoying feature and are able to learn about and achieve multiple orgasms much easier than men.
After you have your first multi orgasm experience, you would not want to go back to your normal and boring orgasms. And this can be proved only through practicing it.
So, learn, practice and enjoy it!
