Motto: “ Ecstasy is already within you. You do not have to look for it outside.” Margot Anand
“Be totally okay with not having an orgasm, and then see what changes. You’ll be amazed. Purposely not having an orgasm is an incredible opportunity to find ecstasy in the present moment. “ Todd Stone
Those men who believe they already know about how things go in life will surely be amazed about the tantric pleasures that escaped them so far. Who never experienced tantric massage has missed out on something extraordinary !
Taoism teaches about refining the Ching energy or the instinctual sexual energy into Chi energy or the energy of life. While the Ching is basically used for reproducing our species, the Chi can be used in order to gain vitality, vigor and bring balance and happiness within our body, mind and spirit.
Tantric massage favors this kind of refinement of the rough sexual instinct into a much higher form of energy that can heal and nourish the entire body. Due to the tantric techniques performed by the therapist, the pleasure and relaxation will spread in all areas of the receiver’s body.
It is essential for the person who is massaged to be relaxed as much as possible and try to abandon to the extraordinary sensations while letting go of any prejudice towards how the orgasm should be experienced.
From this point of view, tantric massage could be perceived as a different approach towards sexuality. This will favor the ecstatic energy flowing and depending on the readiness of the receiver a full-body orgasm will be experienced.
This type of pleasuring is even more pleasant and much more lasting than a normal 30 seconds sexual climax for men. The rewards of tantric orgasm are priceless and they constantly amplify, from one session of massage to the next.
Even more, the beneficial effects are very complex and they can be a constant reassuring of the enormous value of the tantric teachings.
Following a tantric massage the body will never feel weakened and the mind will keep the focus and clarity. Also, the feeling of being in an affectionate manner connected with everything will improve the way we approach our daily life.
The transmutation and sublimation of the sexual instinct will gift us the surprising sensation of being reborn, something that many people have not had the chance to feel before regarding their sexual energy.
According to the taoist and tantric traditions, the real key to physical harmony and to profound and endless pleasure lies in the circulation of sexual energy. Ascending from the lower chakras and than descending back, in a perfectly controlled and regenerating cycle.
During tantric orgasm the intense pleasure implodes inside the body instead of exploding and being released externally. A warm and unctuous energy accompanied with pleasant shivering circulates the entire physical structure. Some men have described the awakening of their profound masculinity, a complex process which drew with it more self awareness. Healing of past traumas, most of them emotionally related have also been observed by the those who experienced this amazing type of orgasm.
Through authentic tantric massage one may come to discover that “orgiastic” sensors can be found in numerous parts of the body, including the brain. This revelation can be triggered by focusing the attention in the present moment through conscious contractions of the genital muscles.
However, it is said that a full-body orgasm is not for everybody, but only for those who are curious and ready enough to experience it. A very important thing to be remembered is that the more patience one has, the faster he can learn tantric orgasm. Like a tantra instructor once said to his students: “ Realize orgasm is not an all or nothing thing.. You can have mini ones. You can take baby steps… a small wave… or a ripple of energy…. these are bridge builders…”
