For couples that understand the importance of harmony in a relationship this is one of the very pleasant and effective method that reaches a calm, harmonious communication to the multiple levels of a couple: sexual, mental,emotional. It is a supportive technique that uses synchronized movements during the massage. This releases the ordinary stresses of the daily life and moves the dimension of the couple into a magical state that brings flavor to a couple, just like a cherry on a cake.
In modern times the absence of sexual harmony is the fundamental problem in a couple. Usually, once the magical beginning is over the sexual part of the relationship takes a horizontal path and communication between the two becomes repetitive or even stops completely.
Our massage for couples is meant to offer new ways of exploring the sexuality by regenerating the affective and mental dimension of the couple. The massage is conducted with synchronized movements – this synchronicity itself brings the yin-yang harmony (feminine and masculine) that represents the base of a love relationship.
Yin and Yang is one of the most fundamental concepts in Traditional Chinese Medicine (the earliest reference to Yin and Yang is in the I Ching in approximately 700 BC). In our world, all phenomena are said to be reduced to Yin-Yang or the feminine and masculine polarity. In the oriental tradition Yin and Yang are opposite, complementary forces of the existence. Their relative nature generates the deepest peace. Yin is the feminine force, passive, oriented towards the exterior, giving substance to the body. Yang is the masculine force, radiant, active, inner oriented, giving motivation to the body.
There are four Main Aspects of Yin and Yang Relationship:
1. Yin-Yang are opposites
The two are either on the opposite ends of a cycle, like the seasons of the year, or, opposites on a continuum of energy or matter. This opposition is relative, and can be experienced in relationships. Yin and Yang are never static but in a constantly changing balance.
2. Interdependent: Cannot exist without each other
The Yin Yang diagram shows the relationship of Yin & Yang and illustrates their interdependence. Nothing is totally Yin or totally Yang. When a state of total Yin is reached, Yang begins to grow. Yin contains a seed of Yang and viceversa. They constantly transform one another. For Example: no energy is without matter, no day is without night. The Taoists’ state: “Yin creates Yang and Yang activates Yin”.
Mutual change of Yin and Yang
The relative levels of Yin and Yang in existence cannot avoid the duality of these opposite forces that are represented by man and woman in the human dimension. The substance without motivation is chaos and the motivation without substance is inertia. The feminine energy is called Shakti and the masculine Shiva.
The notorious philosopher Jung is the one who sustained the theory about Anima and Animus, which states that in every man’s heart there is a feminine aspect called Anima and in every woman’s heart a masculine one called Animus. It is, thus, another theory which supports the Yin Yang polarity in the human being.
How can erotic massage harmonize couples’ issues?
Simply: we work with your energy and since energy has the power of healing, you will be able to experience a boost of tonus in your relationship. When you relax your body, your mind, your emotions, you become connected to your Inner self. Communication at this level is much easier and deeper than mere words. By letting go into the gentle touches of our experienced masseuses, you will be able to feel how all of your negative energies are being dissolved, your entire structure regenerated and, as a consequence, at the end of the massage you will feel different and much more open to your partner.
When a couple decides to experience an erotic massage they have the possibility to choose between having the massage in the same room or in separate rooms. Almost everyone wants to enjoy this special moment with his/her lover aside so when the two enjoy an erotic experience simultaneously with synchronized movements, the subtle bodies and energetic structures of the couple is purified of bad emotions. At the end of the massage, the two will be able to see more clearly their problems and to communicate with a much more constructive attitude.
3. This will bring a huge boost of inspiration into your relationship and we can tell you from our experience with couples that it will be worth it to give your relationship a “refresh” from time to time, as the energies are continuously changing. Normally this is a harmonious change, but when Yin or Yang are out of balance they affect each other, and too much of one aspect can eventually weaken the other.
4. Inter-transformation of Yin and Yang.
One aspect can, at some point, change into the other. This is not a random event, but rather something that happens only when the time is right. For example: Spring only comes when winter is over.
When a couple decides to experience an erotic massage they have the possibility to choose between having the massage in the same room or in separate rooms.